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The Two Minute Relationship: Testing the Waters, Diving In

1 Jun

Over the past few weeks, we’ve taken the time to examine a few of the vital social skills which influence our ability to share the Gospel in an effective and timely manner.  We’ve looked at the question, “What’s in a Name?” and considered the importance of taking the time to “Ask, Listen, and Observe”.  We’ve discussed the value of taking the time to “Relate” to the feelings and experiences of others, even though we don’t always handle our circumstances the same way that they do and considered the importance of living “The Life of a Servant”.  This week, we’re going to conclude our exploration of the “Two Minute Relationship” with some discussion on how to test the waters and take the final plunge into a Gospel presentation.  Don’t worry, the waters are friendlier than they may first appear!

You’ve already built the foundation for your relational connection and you know that you and your new “friend” have something in common.  And, if you’ve been carefully listening to their responses and observing their reactions, you’ve probably seen a few subtle cues as to their religious or political leanings (these may not be as “separate” as you’d initially believe).  If they’ve said something specific about their views, all you need to do is pursue their comments with a few more questions.  Approach others with the attitude of a learner and you’ll go far.

In our modern times, we no longer have to travel to the Middle East to meet a Muslim, India to befriend an Hindu, China to encounter a Buddhist, or South America or Africa to meet an Animist;  Many of them are living right next door! They sit beside us in study hall or ring out our purchases at the grocery store.  So once they’ve opened the door, take the time to ask your neighbors, classmates, co-workers, about their culture and beliefs.  Ask to share a meal from their native country.  Learn to say something in their language (yes, “hello” counts!).  Allow them to explain how and why they view the world the way they do.  More frequently than not, you’ll discover that they’re willing to share… and reciprocate by enquiring about your perspective.  You might call this phase of the conversation the “invitation” – it’s the moment when you know you have a clear opening to present the Gospel message.  So dive right in!

Sometimes, however, the “open door” isn’t as clear.  In these cases, you may be able to give it a gentle nudge and see where the conversation goes.  As you talk, take note of religious symbols, tattoos, bumper stickers, and t-shirt slogans.  These give us a glimpse into the lives of others and can serve as quick conversation starters.  Test the waters with an observation and then proceed to a question.  For example, “That’s a really interesting tattoo.  Does it mean something special to you?”  Then listen carefully to the response.

And don’t hesitate to ask the same questions about apparently Christian symbols either! A cross may be viewed as a fashion accessory just as easily as it is a symbol of Redeeming Love.  Whether the person is trying to be elegant or “cool”, their reason for wearing or using a symbol may not be the same as ours and can lead to some excellent opportunities for sharing the Gospel.

I once asked this question of a receptionist who was wearing a very dainty silver cross whether the emblem held any special meaning for her.  She very quickly replied, “Not really… I just like to wear it.  I like the one you’re wearing.”  The result was that her response to my simple question opened up a fantastic opportunity to share with her about the life, hope, and victory found in the One Who died upon the cross! (Commenting on Christian symbols can also have a very positive and encouraging flip side.  Sometimes the person you ask knows exactly what their symbol means.  It gives you a great opportunity to connect with and lift up another Believer, so don’t be shy!)

Don’t be afraid to clearly display your faith either.  Your reactions to people and events can have a profound effect on folks who have seen a lot of counterfeit Christians.  You might even end up on the receiving end of the enquiry!  I once had an exciting opportunity to share with a couple of teenagers in a jewelry store thanks to a belt buckle I wear.  It bears the initials IXOYE, an abbreviation for the Greek words meaning “Jesus Christ, God’s Son, Savior.”  The clerk saw it and thinking it “really cool”, asked me what it said!

As you learn more about those around you, you will begin to see ways to share Christ that you never even imagined!  Be curious and let the Spirit move!  Even if one specific encounter doesn’t lead to a discussion, it may serve as a springboard – God’s preparation for another encounter later on.

Why Me?

23 Mar

If you’ve made it this far, you’re already doing well! You clearly feel the Spirit leading you to share your faith, but you may still feel hesitant. After all, we pay pastors and missionaries to preach the gospel and “evangelist” is one of those gifts mentioned by Paul in Ephesians 4:11 – a gift given only to some of God’s people.
The truth of the matter is that there is a big difference between being called as an “evangelist” and being called to “evangelize”. While God may not have commissioned you to go out looking for opportunities to share Christ, you have certainly been called to share Him with those who find you. In Matthew 28:19-20, the passage frequently referred to as “The Great Commission”, Jesus commands:

“Go therefore and make disciples of all the nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit, teaching them to observe all that I commanded you.”

The indication of the Greek text is that this wasn’t Christ’s command to that specific group of disciples, but to all of His disciples for all time. And, while you may not have been called into the mission field, unless you’ve secluded yourself in a compound in the Sahara, you’ve already fulfilled the “Go” part of the commission. You’re in the world day in and day out, encountering it through work, your hobbies, or your school. You “go” into the world to buy groceries and attend meetings. You “go” into the world when you attend a sporting event or take an aerobics class. You “go” into the world when you leave the house to see a movie, get to a doctor’s appointment, attend a class, or meet your friends at the mall.

Being in the world, however is just the beginning. Jesus, praying to His Father in John, chapter seventeen, says that once we belong to Him, though in the world, are no longer of the world. This is where the command to “teach” comes into play… and surprisingly enough, teaching doesn’t always involve words. The apostle admonishes us in 1 Peter 2:12 that we should:

“Keep your behavior excellent among the Gentiles, so that in the thing in which they slander you as evildoers, they may because of your good deeds, as they observe them, glorify God in the day of visitation.”

Jesus told us that:

“Now no one after lighting a lamp covers it over with a container, or puts it under a bed; but he puts it on a lampstand, so that those who come in may see the light.” (Luke 8:16)

While the Bible does not teach Salvation through works, it does teach that those who truly know Christ will serve Him. It is an act of love, our show of appreciation for the gift that He has already given us. (John 14:15) If you are a Christian, the life you live will reflect that and it is through this service that others will be attracted to Him. And those who are attracted are bound to ask questions. On such occasions, it is our charge to, “sanctify Christ as Lord in your hearts, always being ready to make a defense to everyone who asks you to give an account for the

hope that is in you, yet with gentleness and reverence.” (1 Peter 3:15) And this is evangelism. You’ve heard the call correctly. Now it’s time to act upon it!

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