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The Great Huckleberry Debate

25 Sep

 Read: Titus 3:1-11

“But avoid foolish controversies and genealogies and strife and disputes about the Law, for they are unprofitable and worthless.”

Titus 3:9 NASB

 

It was the debate of the century and I had a front-row seat!  Perched atop my chair at the front of the House chambers, I could see the face of every combatant and hear every resonating word.  At times the conversation was so heated that the thermostat had to be turned down.  The face of each delegate was set with passion as they defended their side… and threw huckleberries at the other.  No, the debate wasn’t about taxes or healthcare.  There was no mention of State schools or road repairs.  The question at hand was one of even more vital importance: would the huckleberry henceforth be the State Fruit?

A simple question on the surface, it was surrounded by much deeper issues.  Not least of which was the fact that the measure had the potential to cost the State $1,000,000 or more as textbooks were redesigned to include this new addition to the approved State symbols.  (It is for this reason that the “syringa” remains our State Flower after all these years.  A mistake in taxonomy led the legislature to pass a measure making the lilac our state flower… yet the actual flower which appears alongside the title of “syringa” is a mock-orange of the species “philadelphus”.)

Science and finances aside, the opposing side argued that it was worth the cost of making the recommended revisions for the sake of the classroom of third graders who had proposed the legislation in the first place.  After all, how many young people have the opportunity to not only participate in the legislative process, but to actually see some “fruit” from their labors?

Eventually, the bill passed, but I had to laugh that anything so little could cause so much tension in such an august body.

Such tension isn’t limited to the halls of government.  As believers, we too get caught up in debates over relatively “minor” issues… and when we do, it has the power to split churches and do damage to the name of Christ.  Too often, the color of the carpet in the foyer becomes more of an issue than whether we’re funding missions work in New Guinea.  Debate over the order of service or the instruments played becomes a more central focus than the actual content of our worship.  And concerns over which of two equally appropriate children’s program the church embraces lead to permanent falling outs.  In anger and frustration, we find ourselves unwilling to yield our position and what ought to be a minor issue becomes “the debate of the century”.

Perhaps it is for this reason that the Apostle Paul takes such care to remind young Titus that, as much as possible, such foolishness is to be avoided.  Instead of focusing upon the things which divide us, those who embrace Christ as Lord must focus on the issues which leave us united.  Only then will the Church be free to function as our Master envisioned!

Challenge:  The next time you feel tempted to correct someone for being “wrong” take a moment to ask yourself whether their “error” is a matter of fact or of opinion?  Are you preparing yourself to turn a minor quibble into a major debate?  If God’s Word doesn’t make a big issue of the subject, then you shouldn’t either.  Feel free to express your opinion, but once you’ve done that, let it go.  God will handle the rest… and in the meanwhile, you’ve done your part in ensuring that the Body of Christ stays united and strong!

Two Strikes

9 Jan

Read: James 5:7-11

“Therefore let us not judge one another anymore, but rather determine this—not to put an obstacle or a stumbling block in a brother’s way.” – Romans 14:13 NASB

As a retail worker, one of my greatest frustrations has always been the abundance of customers willing to judge me not according to my knowledge or qualifications, but by my sex.  Long ago it was determined that women should be permitted to vote, hold down a steady job, and compete with others on an academic level.  Still, there are some people who seem totally unaware of this development and treat women as though they are less than competent to answer their questions… simply because they are not men.

Not too infrequently, I would respond to an inquiry about our product only to hear my customer utter the words, “Isn’t there a man I can talk to?”  And, not too infrequently, I would be forced to search the store for “a man” with whom the customer could converse.

One of the greatest pleasures when dealing with one of these customers is standing quietly to the side while “the man” shares exactly the same information with the patron that I shared just moments earlier.

I was discussing my frustration with the owner of the company one afternoon after he had adequately filled the role of “a man”.   “You see,” he explained, “It’s unfortunate, but with a lot of men, if you’re a woman, that’s one strike against you and if you’re under fifty, that’s two strikes.”

Sadly, as Christians we can also fall prey to the same attitudes.  While age, race, sex, denomination, or religious history should not be allowed to invalidate a person’s witness, we often allow them to cloud our vision – and miss what God would share with us through the lives of other believers.  Perhaps this is why the Apostle Paul took such pains to warn the early Church not to judge one another, but to do their best to support each other in their walk.  The Church today, must do the same!

Challenge:  How do you judge those around you?  Do you make determinations about them based upon presuppositions about “people like them”?  Or are you taking the time to get to know individuals?  This week, commit to pay special attention to the other Christians in your life – and get to know them for who they really are, not just who you (or others) perceive them to be!

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