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Cold Case Christianity

11 Feb

What does Forensic Statement Analysis (FSA) have to do with the Gospels?  More than you might think!  Most of us are familiar with the archaeological evidence for the reliability of the Gospels, yet few of us have encountered (or analyzed) the forensic evidence.  And that’s what makes J. Warner Wallace’s new book “Cold Case Christianity” special.

Using this relatively modern branch of science, Wallace (a former atheist) teaches readers to effectively apply the skills of a police detective to the Gospel accounts.  From circumstantial evidence to the chain of custody to conspiracy theories, Wallace uses real life cases to walk his readers through the steps necessary to secure a conviction in a cold-case homicide… then teaches them to apply the same standards and procedures to the case for Christ.

Throughout the pages of this entertaining volume, you’ll learn how detectives harmonize eyewitness accounts, determine the reliability of their witnesses, and filter out biased testimony.  You’ll travel with Wallace to the scenes of robberies and homicides as you learn to collect and assemble enough evidence to result in a conviction… and develop a solid case for the Gospel.

Written clearly and concisely, the book is as entertaining as it is informative.  Wallace’s skill as a story teller is surpassed only by his common sense approach to apologetics.  “Cold Case Christianity” is an excellent primer for anyone interested in presenting a solid case for their faith in the Bible and the God it portrays.

“Cold Case Christianity” was published by David C. Cook and is available in print or e-book through Amazon.com.

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Please Convince Me

17 Dec

J. Warner Wallace, a cold case homicide detective, spent 35 years as an “angry atheist”.  Vehemently opposed to Christianity, he decided to apply his crime scene experience to investigating the case for the faith – and concluded that a person should believe not “in spite of the evidence, but because of it.”

The Please Convince Me was designed to document his own journey to faith and to help others along the way.  Check out the blog to read about the continuing journey of the skeptics at Please Convince Me or download the weekly podcast to listen to J. Warner Wallace discuss common objections to Christianity from a detective’s point of view.  Not sure about what you hear?  Why not join the Please Convince Me Facebook group where believers, skeptics, and seekers have the opportunity to tackle tough questions about life and faith in a friendly environment.

Got some time to kill?  Why not check out some of the awesome YouTube videos highlighting both Wallace’s case for Christianity and one of his real-life police stories!  Or, visit the Academy where you’ll find a FREE and fully developed curriculum to help both individuals and groups learn to present their faith in a solid way that will stand up in even the toughest court.

And don’t forget to check out Wallace’s new book “Cold Case Christianity” due to release January 1st!

There’s plenty to see, so take the time to sit down and explore the site.  You may be surprised where the evidence leads!

Hard Case

3 Aug

Over the last few weeks, we’ve taken the time to discuss the difference between “Hard Core and Hard Cases” and examined a few reasons (legitimate and otherwise) that a person might adamantly object to Christ and vehemently oppose those who follow Him.  We’ve taken a deeper look at what constitutes a “Hard Core” personality (those who simply will not under any circumstance consider the Christian viewpoint) and discussed some ways to handle the adversarial situations which may arise when we encounter such a person.  This week, we’ll be breaking down the types of “Hard Cases” (those persons who object to Christianity on intellectual or moral grounds) in order to better understand what drives others to believe that there are rational grounds for rejecting the Gospel message.

All of us, at one time or another, have encountered someone who appeared deeply opposed to our faith and, perhaps, even to us, but who upon further examination was merely an honest skeptic with genuine questions.  While such people may express themselves aggressively, their adamant tones and forthright attacks are usually rooted in deeper objections to a faith which they believe fails to promote rational thinking and tolerance of (or at least civility towards) divergent lifestyles and other systems of belief.  (And, if we’re honest, a quick glance at the evening news would seem to confirm this!)  Most times, such people are reacting to an overall perception of the faith rather than to individual adherents.  Overcoming their objections begins with our own willingness to patiently persevere as we walk in the steps of Christ.  Here are a few tips to get you started:

Don’t Be a Pushy Christian.  If you approach others with the attitude of a gun-slinger hoping to add another notch to the pearl handle of his revolver, it should come as no surprise that others pull their own weapons when they see you coming!  Dealing with “Hard Case” personalities requires a bit of gentleness and finesse and a willingness to put the guns away.  The goal here isn’t to win a debate, but to demonstrate Christianity and the life of Christ in such a way that those who object to the faith begin to ask why you don’t mesh with their perceptions of it.  Begin by living what you believe, not by preaching it.

Learn to Ask Questions.  More than once, I’ve met someone who came to faith in Christ not because someone explicitly shared the Gospel message, but because someone knew the right questions to ask to peak their curiosity about that Gospel.  Genuine skeptics are like hunters: set a meal before them and they feel deprived.  Give them a chance to seek the prey for themselves and they experience an unparalleled fulfillment which climaxes in (you guessed it) the same meal.  For many, the thrill of the investigation and the joy of seeking information for themselves is a driving force.  So encourage it.  Ask the hard questions, the “why” questions, then (unless they specifically ask for your input) leave your friend to their own devices!  Remember that Jesus said:

“Ask, and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find; knock, and it will be opened to you.  For everyone who asks receives, and he who seeks finds, and to him who knocks it will be opened.” (Matthew 7:7,8)

No one who truly seeks God will fail to come to an explicit faith in Jesus Christ.  God might just have placed you in this person’s life to help them turn on the “seek” switch.

Be Patient.  It’s easy to think that when our friend, family member, co-worker, or classmate walks away, the encounter is over… but nothing could be further from the truth!  In fact, in a spiritual sense, the end of the discussion is just the beginning of the battle.  Failing to recognize this can result in our missing some tremendous opportunities to affect lives for Christ!

When it comes to a “Hard Case” personality, patience is often the key.  The truth is, most adults, particularly those already deeply entrenched in a particular system of belief (whether they recognize it as such or not), take time to come to a realization that Jesus is Who He claimed to be.  Many Muslims must hear the simple gospel message more than 100 times before they even understand it, let alone believe it.  I corresponded regularly with a Jewish Rabbi for five years before he was even willing to accept that Christianity wasn’t inherently anti-Semitic… and we hadn’t begun to work on the idea of Salvation by Grace alone through Faith alone!  Those who have genuine objections to Christianity usually have good reasons for those objections and it takes time and commitment to overcome them.

Be Ready.  Don’t run from a situation just because it seems difficult.  The honest truth is the people who fight the hardest are often the ones God is closest to bringing into His Kingdom.  When the enemy gets aggressive, it’s because he’s about to lose possession of a soul and he wants you to quit!  Instead of backing down, put on the full armor of God and stand.

“For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the powers, against the world forces of this darkness, against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places.”  (Ephesians 6:12)

Skeptics aren’t our enemies and should never be treated as though they are.  Their questions force us to question our own beliefs and consider whether they are, indeed, consistent with Scripture, with logic, and with the manner in which we live our lives.  Our willingness to openly hear their questions and carefully respond to them (even if our best response is, “I don’t know, but I will find out”), makes all the difference in the world!

Hard Core

27 Jul

Last week, we discussed the difference between “Hard Core and Hard Case” objectors to Christianity.  This week, we’ll be taking a look at the first (and rarest) of those and discussing how to handle the sometimes aggressive situations which can develop when others adamantly oppose our Christian faith.  We’ll examine what provokes such people and consider some ways to maintain a Christian witness without escalating the conflict into an all-out war.

In Matthew 7:6, Jesus says: “Do not give what is holy to dogs, and do not throw your pearls before swine, or they will trample them under their feet, and turn and tear you to pieces.”

I confess that for years I found this passage to be puzzling.  Given the Scripture’s emphasis on the importance of evangelism, it seemed odd that something so apparently anti-evangelism would have come from Christ’s mouth.  It was not until I was sitting in a restaurant, trying to blend into the booth as a very hard core anti-Christian loudly berated my faith that I began to understand.

The friend with whom I was sharing was very quick to explain that she was well-versed in the case against Christ.  She was convinced that anyone with a reasonable amount of intelligence could readily be talked out of Christianity.  Unfortunately, her conversation revealed that she hadn’t actually done her research.  She had spent a great deal of time reading books written in opposition to Jesus, but had never read the Bible or anything else written in favor of the Christian point of view.  Her case was made in complete ignorance of Biblical teaching or traditional Christian theology.  In order to cover for this, she’d change her position a thousand times during a single debate – sometimes being in favor of the very thing which she had adamantly opposed just moments earlier!  It often felt like I was speaking to a moving brick wall with built in cannonade.  Try to expose her error and “Kapow”, you were flat on your back.

It even reached a point where I began to hesitate to pick up her phone calls.  I didn’t want to spend time with her because I knew the only thing that would come of it was further attacks on my faith.  She was not sincerely interested in discussing the case for or against Christianity, but was merely seeking an argument.

It was then that my father sat down with me and had a talk about “casting pearls before swine”.  I had presented the gospel message to my friend and given her a Bible to read as well as access to other information in favor of Christianity.  To continue the pursuit, especially with her expressed disinterest in earnest discussion, was counter-productive and verging on Bible thumping.  It was wasting my time.  And it was wasting hers.

So what was I to do?  In Matthew 17:14-21, a man came to Jesus’ disciples and asked them to cast out the demon which possessed his son.  The disciples were unable to do so and when they asked Jesus why, He replied: “this kind does not go out except by prayer and fasting.”

While I don’t believe my friend was demon possessed, I’m not ready to discount the activity of demons when it comes to holding someone in such bondage that they are both unwilling and unable to have a rational, controlled conversation with someone who sees the world from a different angle.  (And yes, there are some Christians who are equally as bound.)  This is what you might call hard-core evangelism and the only way to deal with it is through intense, ongoing prayer.  No fancy arguments or acts of love will win over someone like this;  only the supernatural power of God is capable of doing that.  He must be the One to break down the barriers.

Meanwhile, keeping the conversation from exploding into a profane rant requires a bit of finesse.  Most hard-core anti-Christians have trigger points – those things which bring the Christian faith so much to the forefront that they are incapable of restraining themselves from sharing their thoughts.  In such situations, it pays to learn those trigger points and, when possible, do your best to avoid them.  If that news story about abortion or the Gay Pride parade is going to send your friend, family member, or co-worker into a tirade, have the good sense not to mention it.  If you’ve arranged to get off a bit early to attend a Christian conference, they don’t need to know.  Keep your discussion of religious issues to a minimum.  Live your faith and leave God free to work in their heart.

There will be situations in which a trigger point can’t be avoided without our falling into sin.  In such cases, you will likely have a heads-up about what’s coming.  More often than not, your best bet is to sit and listen.  Hard core anti-Christians are used to those who are Christians attempting to answer each of their questions or rebuff their statements.  These activities only fuel the flames of indignation.  By sitting quietly and hearing what those opposed to our faith have to say, we indicate that their opinion does matter to us.  And by not responding we avoid getting embroiled in a conflict that will yield neither good will nor an honest examination of the case for Christ.  Proverbs 23:9 admonishes, “Do not speak in the hearing of a fool, for he will despise the wisdom of your words.”  Remember that even our Master kept silent at times.  (Isaiah 53:7; Matthew 26:59-64)

Next week, we’ll be taking a look at “Hard Cases” – those who object to Christianity for genuine moral, ethical, theological, or intellectual reasons.  Meanwhile, feel free to share your own accounts of “Hard Core” evangelism in the comment box below!

Hard Core or Hard Case?

20 Jul

I looked awkwardly around the restaurant, pleased that it was mostly deserted.  The few customers who were there were staring at our table and I had to admit that I couldn’t blame them: I’d be doing the same if the shoe were on the other foot.  My friend had risen from her seat and in a voice that was far from conversational, was letting me (and everyone within a city block) know exactly how she felt about my Christian faith.

At some point during your evangelism adventures, you’re likely to encounter an adversarial situation.  The person may get angry and start yelling or calling names (as my friend did) or they may simply listen to you and then disdainfully walk away.  They may present you with rapid fire questions and allow you no opportunity to answer any of them or, if they do, may show an unwillingness to actually listen to the answers that you give.  Such people may be hard core anti-Christians (those who are unwilling to examine any evidence in favor of the faith and who are committed to its extermination) or they may simply be hard cases (those whose opposition is rooted in genuine questions and concerns about the faith).  While both may express themselves through similar words and actions, each must be approached differently.  For the next few weeks, we’ll take a look at what it means to be “hard core” or simply a “hard case” and discuss a few methods for defusing conflicts with both.

Before I begin, however, I need to take a moment to differentiate between “hard core” and “hard case”.  It is important to realize that true “hard core” anti-Christians are a rarity, despite their unique ability to attract the attention of the media.  These are people who really mean exactly what they’ve said against the faith and if Jesus Christ, Himself appeared before them, they’d spit in His face.  They may or may not have done their research, but they’re certain that nothing will cause them to ever become a Christian and their aggression towards those who are is truly genuine.  They view Christianity as a threat to a well-ordered and tolerant society or a truly religious society, depending upon which part of the world they hail from.  This doesn’t mean that it’s a waste of time to share the Gospel with them, just that the techniques you use will be a little different.  Our God is big enough to convert even the most adamant of His opposition – just look at the Apostle Paul!

The more common of the two, however, is the “hard case”.  Such people often have sincere intellectual or moral questions about Christianity.  Their belief that these questions cannot be answered may lead to very adamant and direct statements such as, “Even if you could prove to me that it’s true, I will never become a Christian”.  What is usually meant by this is that they genuinely don’t believe that you can provide them with any serious evidence to that end that Christianity is true, not that they actually would reject the faith if such evidence were provided.  Many times, these are the true intellectuals among the “opposition” – they try to think things through and they aren’t going to bite unless a substantial case is made in favor of a given position.

It is also likely that their objections run deeper than what they’re expressing.  They may have had some unpleasant encounters with Christians in the past (face it, some who claim the name of Christ are a bit aggressive, themselves) and may feel awkward around those who appear to have proven themselves incapable of living peaceably with anyone who disagrees with their world view.   “Hard cases” may have grown up in a professing Christian home that failed to live up to the Biblical vision or have “done time” in a church seemed to do more harm than good.  It’s also quite possible that their understanding of Christianity is limited to what they’ve seen on PBS and the evening news – two generally reliable sources.  (It is important to note that such people aren’t getting their information from conspiracy websites.  “Hard cases” are not a part of the lunatic fringe and should never be treated as though they are!)

Taking the time to determine whether your friend, co-worker, or family member is simply “spouting off” or is quite sincere in what they’re expressing is the key to determining whether a person is “hard core” or a “hard case”.  It requires a delicate touch, a loving heart, and an immense amount of prayer!  Next week, we’ll begin taking a look at how to handle “hard core” situations and I’ll be sharing the rest of the story with which this article opened, but for now, feel free to share your thoughts in the comment box below!

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