In 1 Peter 5:6-10, the Apostle admonishes his hearers to, “…humble yourselves under the mighty hand of God, that He may exalt you in due time, casting all your care upon Him, for He cares for you. Be sober, be vigilant; because your adversary the devil walks about like a roaring lion, seeking whom he may devour. Resist him, steadfast in the faith, knowing that the same sufferings are experienced by your brotherhood in the world. But may the God of all grace, who called us to His eternal glory by Christ Jesus, after you have suffered a while, perfect, establish, strengthen, and settle you.” Titus 2:12b,13 confirms this concept, commanding that, “We should live in this evil world with self-control, right conduct, and devotion to God, while we look forward to that wonderful event when the glory of our great God and Savior, Jesus Christ, will be revealed.” Our momentary trials are nothing when we look at God’s Big Picture.
As difficult as it seems at times, we know that everything that comes into our lives does so for a purpose. And nothing which touches our lives does so without God’s permission. In Genesis 31:7, Jacob confessed to Rachel that, “…your father has cheated me and changed my wages ten times; however, God did not allow him to hurt me.” While God’s idea of what doesn’t cause permanent harm doesn’t always match our own, God does promise that He will never allow us to encounter anything that He isn’t going to pull us through… and that includes serving under a difficult boss.
Instead of focusing on how frustrating the situation is, we’re better off asking God to explain the lesson that He’s trying to teach us or the character trait that He’s trying to develop in us. After all, character is like muscle: it can only be built under stress!
Romans 5:3-5a tells us that, “We can rejoice, too, when we run into problems and trials, for we know that they are good for us – they help us learn to endure. And endurance develops strength of character in us, and character strengthens our confident expectation of salvation. And this expectation will not disappoint us. For we know how dearly God loves us…” We have the same assurance as Job that, “…he knows the way that I take; when he has tested me, I will come forth as gold.” (Job 23:10 NIV) The truth is, no matter how mean, erratic, or volatile your boss may be, you won’t always be in his grip. Jacob (the hero of our story) realized this and we need to as well.
There’s more to a cheerful attitude, however, than just keeping our focus on the “big picture.” Face it, sometimes, no matter how hard we try, that universal view simply eludes us. In times like this, when all we can see is how absolutely miserable we are, we need to realize that we aren’t alone.
We’ll take a look at some ways to remind ourselves of this next week. Meanwhile, feel free to share some ways in which a Godly perspective on trials has positively influenced your workplace experience in the comment box below!